One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.
One white candle (symbolizes purification, cleansing)
A piece of paper
A pen
Herbs corresponding to cleansing/banishing, such as: ⚬ sage ⚬ sandalwood ⚬ bay leaves ⚬ dragon’s blood ⚬ rosemary ⚬ lavender ⚬ basil ⚬ yarrow ⚬ mugwort ⚬ black or red pepper
STEPS:
🕯 On the piece of paper, write the negative emotions you’ve been feeling. Go into detail about how stuck you’ve been feeling, and how you wish to break free from whatever or whomever has you in it’s web.
🕯 Place the candle on top of your petition.
🕯 Sprinkle the herbs you chose to use on top of the candle. As you are doing so, visualize the purpose of each herb. Feel the doors in your life opening, your desires now coming to you with ease rather than with delay.
🕯 Light the candle, sit in front of it, and meditate on what you wish to happen after this spell. Imagine yourself getting what you want, the blockages melting away like ice on hot pavement.
🕯 Command it to get out of your way. This is your life, you have the power to pick and choose who and what you want in it, so do it. Do this verbally or mentally, whichever you see fit.
🕯 Allow the candle to burn down completely, or, you can leave it on until you feel the blockages were removed. If you choose the second method, you can light this same candle again if you feel the need to ever again.